A few months ago, I was wracked with a horrible feeling: was I a bad person? On a couple of occasions, if I found myself disinterested in a dating situation, I would just kind of… stop talking to the person. It’s not to say I would ignore them, but I wouldn’t necessarily go out of […]
heartbreak
You can only be as okay as you actually are.
I spent a lot of time chastising myself for feeling the wrong way. “This is ridiculous, you’re overreacting.” “You said, it was okay, so you really have no reason to be upset.” “You’re not getting anything done feeling this way, grow up and act like a fucking adult.” The voices in my head are not […]
A love story.
When Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin split up in 2014, they dubbed it a “conscious uncoupling”, resulting in some serious scrutiny from fans, journalists, and talk show hosts. I thought it was pretty dumb too. It was a break up. Why not call a spade a spade? It’s funny how a bit of experience can […]
